When I first started dancing, if a guy asked me to dance, I assumed it was because, without wanting to sound like a thriteen year old schoolgirl, that they liked me.
I soon learnt that in most cases a guy asks you to dance because he thought you looked fun or were a good dancer (both of course very true!), not because he was having romantic notions.
This may not always be the case, maybe a guy has asked me to dance because he fancies me, but because that line has been so blurred I just can't tell.
This has crossed over to other parts of my life. If a guy talks to me at a bar, I do generally assume he is just being friendly, like the countless lindy guys I dance with.
Basically, any guys out there who want more than a dance are really going o have to sign post it because, quite frankly, I have no idea.
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